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Writing is what I do. It’s what I’ve done. It’s what I know best. The rest, as they say, is history.

Many curious people outside the escorting business have asked the question of why do women decide to work as escorts? However, equally as fascinating are the reasons why men hire them. While it's easy to settle for the stereotypes that ignorant people go around claiming as the truth, the reality is that there is no concrete answer for what motivates either of these groups of people. I've put together a list of the most common reasons I have encountered and some of them may surprise you.

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All escorts can probably agree on the importance of screening new clients. With all the technology available today, there is no reason for any provider to skip this step and you should prepare yourself for some of the most common methods used for screening.

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Most hobbyists have an ATF (all time favorite) escort who they prefer to see most of the time, but how can you get on her list of favorite clients? Here are a few ideas, based on my own experience.

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If you are new to the hobby, you might not be sure how to feel about seeing escorts on several levels. When we start exploring new areas of interest, we usually aren't very sure of ourselves and become filled with self-doubt.

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For those of you who were salivating with anticipation over the first porn app developed for Google Glass, great disappointment lies ahead.

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Meeting with new clients who you enjoy spending time with is great, but forming long-lasting business relationships with them is even better. So how do you stand out among the crowd of other providers and secure your spot among their favorites list? Read on to get some of my own personal tips on how to turn new escort clients into instant regulars.

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What's in a name? Is being called a "slut" really still insulting to the modern day feminist? Perhaps not. After all, sticks and stones may break your bones, but words can never hurt you. At least that's what the old adage would have us believe.

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According to the Federal Trade Commission's website, it would appear that cell phone service providers are by far the leading industry when it comes to cancellation fees for their customers. Regardless of your cell carrier or your mobile plan, it's likely that you have a hefty early cancellation fee that you agreed to cover in the event that you cancel your service before your contract expires.

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Over the years, I've seen dozens of different types of hobbyists. Some are regulars, some semi-regulars and others only cross paths with me once, for various reasons.

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Obviously when you begin to work as an escort, you will need to build your client base, which means seeing new people on a regular basis to get started. After you've put in some time and built up your reputation on a local level, you will have the option of seeing fewer new clients when the circumstances permit.

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Surely it's no secret that men are highly sexual creatures, right? Not only does the thought of sex enter the minds of most men several times throughout the day on a regular basis, but it's equally as important to fulfill those sexual needs to relieve stress and maintain your sanity in some capacity.

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Generally speaking, working as an escort means you don't have to worry much about not finding business or running into any serious interruptions in your cash flow. Fortunately for all ladies in the industry, we are typically exempt from dips in the economy and other factors which oftentimes lead to the decline of business for other professionals.

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As an escort, you will need to watch out for yourself when meeting with new clients. Your safety is the most important thing that you should be worried about, never let any tempting offers or large sums of money convince you otherwise.

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Over the years, I've had a wide variety of requests from both new clients and those who I have been seeing since I began. While some are certainly more strange and outlandish than others, it has become clear which ones are fairly common and which you are most likely to encounter at some point or another.

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One of the most important things to figure out when you begin escorting is where you will be spending your time with clients. Generally speaking, there are three main options for locations: incall, outcall and neutral locations.

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If you've been in the escorting business for a while, then the idea of accepting credit card payments for your services may have crossed your mind at some point. Of course, most providers have a cash only policy when it comes to getting paid for their encounters. But are they missing out on extra money by limiting their client's options to paper bills?

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If you're new to the hobby, you might find it more challenging than you thought to discover the true gems in the escorting scene. As you see more ladies in the business, things will become more clear and it will become easier to tell them apart from those who will only waste your time or leave you with a bad case of buyer's remorse.

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Escorts face a unique challenge when confronted with one of the most common small talk starters that is thrown around in our society. That question, of course, is "So, what do you do?"

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Your choice to work as an escort will undoubtedly result in some rather harsh criticism from family, friends and society in general. While this is an unfortunate side effect of our culture's attitudes towards female sexuality and empowerment, it remains a fact of life that you will probably have to deal with in your own way.

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If you are new to the escorting business, you may be wondering how in the world to go about setting your rates. I know when I started out I felt pretty lost and really had no idea what kind of rate was acceptable.

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If you're a man who hires escorts, you will probably agree that your encounters with escorts are best kept discreet and private. In many ways, you may feel the same way about it as you would any other type of intimate relationship you share in your personal life.

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Thanks to the first amendment of the US Constitution, adult film stars are protected by law and getting paid to be filmed in porn movies is 100% legal. On the other hand, prostitution is illegal in every U.S. State except for a few counties in Nevada where you can legally visit brothels for the purpose of having sex with a prostitute.

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I began escorting back in 2006, yet I still see a great many of my clients who I met at the same time. Over the years, I have developed friendships of varying degrees with most of them. Each person is unique of course. On a rare occasion, I meet a client who prefers to keep things strictly business and that's fine too.

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As a hobbyist, you will probably see many escorts and you will find that each one is a unique experience with its own qualities to appreciate. However, I'm guessing you will also agree that some encounters certainly stick out more than others, for either good or not so good reasons.

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As an escort, it’s in your best interest to provide an exceptional experience for your clients. Not only does this turn first time customers into regular clients, but it helps build your reputation and allows you to demand the rates you deserve. If you are working as an escort and wondering how to please your clients, here are a few tips!

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You might think that you won't have time to escort if you are working another job already. Trust me, you can do both. In fact, escorting as a supplemental source of income only requires a couple of hours per week, if that's all you have time for or want to do. Working as an escort doesn't always have to be a full-time gig!

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If you ever browse through escort ads to check out the competition, then you are likely to at some point come across an ad that offers some sort of trade for services. If you have been working as an escort for a while, you may have even been approached by a prospect who is interested in working out some sort of trade instead of paying with cash.

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If you are working as an escort, you will inevitably be asked if your sessions can be filmed by some of your clients. It may be tough to know the right answer. Here are a few ways to look at it, and what to consider before you say yes or no.

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If you just got into the sex industry (or if you'd like to), you may be wondering if those imperfections of yours are going to be a problem. GOOD NEWS! The key to being a successful escort (or any kind of adult entertainer) is knowing your niche. If you want to know how to market yourself as an escort, look no further.

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You found the perfect escort and had a great time...but now she's not answering her calls! Maybe you took a misstep. Here are a few reasons an escort may avoid you, and how you may be able to change her mind...

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