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Experience

"Experience is the only thing that brings knowledge, and the longer you are on earth the more experience you are sure to get." Sometimes the best way to gain some perspective on issues you're facing or problems you have is through the eyes of someone else. This is a collection of insights from people who have been there and back again.

Experience

What IS Labor: Working in a Post-COVID World

Sex workers have been hit hard, both with health concerns causing a drop in clients, and the eternal struggle of informal/under the table workers just having more difficulty accessing many of the expanding social support systems. But even essential workers are facing problems with labor.

  • Kate D'Adamo
    Kate D'Adamo
6 min read
Experience

COVID-19 Could be Uniquely Serious for Sex Workers

In efforts to limit the spread of COVID-19, companies, including Twitter, Google, and Facebook (as well as the federal government) have all restricted employee travel. For areas of the adult entertainment industry who rely on conferences and travelers, cancellations are really starting to add up.

  • Kate D'Adamo
    Kate D'Adamo
7 min read
Experience

Sex Work Twitter Reacts and Educates When it Comes to #Coronavirus

Sex Work twitter is really where it's all at. And it should come as little surprise that sex workers are taking COVID-19/Coronavirus in stride (as much as possible). Folks out here sharing informed opinions, seeking input or experience from others, and working to take care of one another.

  • Tyler Dårlig Ulv
    Tyler Dårlig Ulv
4 min read
Experience

The Truth About Those "Highest Paid Escort" Articles – As Told By 3 Top-of-Their-Game Companions

If an article’s headline begins with “you won’t believe…” or – worse – a dollar amount, you probably oughtn’t believe anything that comes next. And, sadly, it's almost all to do with websites trying to amp up the “wow factor” to get clicks and shares off the backs of sex workers.

  • Slixa
    Slixa
7 min read
Experience

Pegged (or "The Myth of Giving, Taking, & Losing One's Virginity")

Ben and I had been working together for just over 6 months. When we started, he'd never approached, flirted with, or kissed a girl. He became one of my favorite clients, later asking to see me in another context. See, I’m also a dominatrix, and while I'd never disclosed that, the Internet provides.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
7 min read
Experience

New Girl in A New World

New to this new world, I put my best foot forward and jumped right on in. For the ladies looking to start in this line of work or new girls who have just begun, this blog post is specifically for you. I was you and I am you now: I was scared and I was intimidated. But this community is amazing!

  • Marie-Lynn
    Marie-Lynn
5 min read
Experience

Client Screening: Why It's REALLY Best For Everyone

Screening provides a comfort level for everyone. Feeling comfortable is sexy. If I agree to see someone without screening, I feel edgy, angry at myself, and scared. I don’t mind seeing newbies and I love being someone’s first experience in this world...

  • Aviva Ruse
    Aviva Ruse
2 min read
Experience

For Mother's Day: 5 Stories of Sex Workers and Their Super Supportive Moms

This Mother’s Day, I wanted to carve out some time to commend all the supportive moms of sex workers out there. The moms who cheerlead their child’s accomplishments and speak out supportively. I profiled five such mother-daughter pairs.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
8 min read
Experience

The Margins of the Margin: Why Trans Women Are Often Relegated in Sex Work

Trans people are disproportionately represented in the sex industry. A survey of trans people and inequality in the US finds that 13 percent of trans people reported some form of participation in sex work, with trans feminine individuals being twice as likely to...

  • Pandora Rose
    Pandora Rose
4 min read
Experience

Against FOSTA/SESTA: One Canary's Cry From Inside the Coal Mine

I am not special, nor am I an exception to any rule—the forces that govern my life and affect my personal agency are the same ones that affect others. Yes, I am a sex worker—and at the same time I am a daughter, a sister, a teacher, an immigrant, a partner, a pet-owner, an Internet user...

  • Slixa
    Slixa
8 min read
Experience

Global Implications Of FOSTA

In the days following SESTA-FOSTA’s passage through Congress—before it had even been formally signed into law —sex workers tangibly felt its effect. While supporters of the law claimed to target sex traffickers, its text makes no effort to differentiate trafficking from consensual sex work.

  • Slixa
    Slixa
10 min read
Experience

The Death Of The Dabbler and The Erasure Of Sex Work From The Common Internet

I am a full-on sex worker, but I started out as a dabbler, and for the first four years of my practice I was almost invisible. Aside from a few photos on my Fetlife profile (which read like a personal profile at the time) I was a ghost...

  • Slixa
    Slixa
7 min read
Experience

Another Famous Whore...

“Oh, shit.” I had just met a perfect guy on Match that I already knew from the sex club. What was becoming of my life. Worlds collided. The last month was a whirlwind.

  • Maya Jordan
    Maya Jordan
5 min read
Experience

You, Too, Can Orgasm on Camera

Carlin Ross and Betty Dodson discuss sex positivity, unrepentant slutiness, and how to get off for the world to see. Finding a job in a post employment society is hard. Doing your taxes

  • July Westhale
    July Westhale
3 min read
Experience

Annie Sprinkle on December 17th: "We often spend 360+ days a year talking about how we love our work. One day a year we acknowledge that yes, it’s a tough job and there are real victims."

On December 17th of 2003, Annie Sprinkle, Robin Few, and Stacy Swimme stood with one hundred fellow sex workers and allies who had gathered on the lawn outside City Hall in San Francisco.

  • Siouxsie Q
    Siouxsie Q
4 min read
Experience

Does Amazon Discriminate Against Adult Entertainers?

Like many adult entertainers and Boston escorts, cam girl Rose Red uses Amazon’s public Wish List feature to let her fans and clients know what items she’s looking to acquire. That

  • Switch Lori DiLetto
    Switch Lori DiLetto
3 min read
Experience

Why the Criminalization of Clients is Problematic

When I first heard about john schools, I thought they were places run by sex workers where prospective or current clients could learn how to be respectful and mindful. I thought they sounded

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
6 min read
Experience

Burlesque as Sex Worker Feminism: history, theory, and dialogue with three fierce performers

Look at your glove. Now look at the audience. Then look back at your glove, and use your eyes to direct the attention of the audience to your glove. Look again at your

  • Kate Zen
    Kate Zen
15 min read
Experience

Branded: The Fight for Employment After Sex Work

It's been ten years that sex work and I have been bedfellows, and I'm looking at formally hanging up my uncomfortable heels to put it behind me. Turns out, though, it's easier said

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
10 min read
Experience

Online Dating and Sexual Discovery: Hooking Up in a Modern World

If you’re been keeping up with my regular articles, you’ll notice that I’ve been all atwitter over autumn. From the plethora of squash varietals (kabocha, delicata, pumpkin, spaghetti, butternut) to

  • July Westhale
    July Westhale
7 min read
Experience

Illustrator Erika Moen Shares The Joy of Sex Toys

Reviews can be handy for a number of things from restaurants to services, even sex toys and lubricants. A blog that has caught my attention among the many reviewers online is Erika Moen’

  • Madeleine Clavel
    Madeleine Clavel
2 min read
Experience

Ms. Dykefire: Queer Answers For Straight Problems!

In a perfect world, Ms. Dykefire would be an up-and-running bi-monthly newspaper advice column, a la Dear Abby. Though I prefer to stay in California and not relocate to Florida, the sentiment in

  • July Westhale
    July Westhale
3 min read
Experience

Forbidden Flesh: Fatness and Fetishism Within Adult Entertainment

I often identify myself, with some pleasure, as fat. Just as often, there's a flurry of anxiety around my use of the word, as if I am judging myself harshly in some fashion.

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
8 min read
Experience

I'm a Sex Worker, Praise Jesus!

Most people who find out about my faith and my job ask me the same questions; Things like, "Do you go to church?" or "Don't you think God doesn't like it?" or "How

  • Oaxa Koate
    Oaxa Koate
3 min read
Experience

Girlfriend Experience: When the Professional Turns Personal

I fell in love at work once.I wasn't emotionally prepared for my feelings. I didn't know how to categorize them, or how to take care of myself. I figured I was good

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
11 min read
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