Going to a provider can be quite the scary experience when you have particular fetishes or kinks you want to explore, but you’re not entirely sure how to discuss it. As a

Those who aren’t drawn to kinky play often cannot get past its extremes, and often operate on the assumption that since they personally cannot understand what there is to enjoy about BDSM,

Sky high heels may kill our feet, but the sexiness they exude is undeniable. From everyday wear to fetish extreme, heels have that certain something that adds intense sex appeal. From sexing up

Finding someone who: you have chemistry with, both sexually and socially lives close enough to be accessible is in the right place with themselves and wants the same things that you want and

If you've spent any time in your local or online kink communities you may have encountered discussions centering on what a Trueî Dominant, switch, submissive, masochist or sadist might do, say, wear or

Pretty pretty... Please! Yes, manners are real and they can really help you get exactly what you want from a kind hearted Mistress like myself. Is your ultimate desire something kinky or 'dirty'?

Choosing which services to offer is the first major business decision BDSM pros make when going independent. ‘Services’ can include which activities we engage in sessions (from the sensual to the sadistic), which

Good news, fellow perverts!æ Despite the popular opinion that those who revel in the dark side of sexuality are incurably damaged, a recent article æpublished in the Journal of Sexual Medicine is

I’ve encountered a number of sexually submissive women who have expressed an interest in going pro. It’s true that being personally interested in subbing makes it much, much easier to do

From the first question of whether you would like to play to the day after a scene, an open dialogue between play partners is necessary. The simplest way to get what you want

Many kinksters get to know themselves and let go of stresses by playing with their bodies and minds through a combination of sensation play, sensory deprivation and bondage. Some find it peaceful and

Professional submissive (or professional switch) is arguably the riskiest job in this industry. While escorts, masseuses, and pro Dommes worry about the bad luck of winding up with a client who hurts them,

Many who are well acquainted with BDSM are familiar with "sub-drop" - the emotional and physical fatigue experienced by submissives after play, especially when they have played long and hard. Here

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While many of us in the world of professional BDSM (and sex work overall) tend to take on lots of different kinds of odd jobs beyond our primary description, Moira has actually created

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(Note: while I’m speaking here about M/f situations, as that’s where I was at the time, that’s not at all to say that men or Dominant women don’t