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Kitty Stryker

Kitty Stryker

Kitty Stryker is a geeky sex worker, Burner, rabid writer and feminist activist with one high-heeled boot in San Francisco, California and one in London, England.

Oakland, CA •
17 posts •
Opinion

An Open Letter to the Feminist Porn Awards

It’s getting close to the 10th Annual Feminist Porn Awards, an event I enjoyed last year and was looking forward to again this year. I bought my ticket to Toronto, excited to

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
10 min read
Opinion

Unpopular Opinion: Satire Should Punch Up. Charlie Hebdo Did Not.

ETA: Here’s a bunch of articles that have come out since I wrote this piece that I concur with, so some of your vitriolic comments can be spread out to all of

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
34 min read
News

Not Waving, But Drowning: How WePay Failed Eden Alexander

Better times, Eden Alexander and I for QueerPorn.TV UPDATE: We do have a new campaign set up here! We’ve heard from people at this fundraising site AND their payment processor and

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
7 min read
News

Paypal Strongarms Patreon to Deny “Adult” Content Creators Funding

So I just got an alarming and apologetic email from Patreon, which you can read below. Apparently PayPal threatened to freeze all creator pages unless adult content was blocked from using PayPal via

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
3 min read
Experience

Why the Criminalization of Clients is Problematic

When I first heard about john schools, I thought they were places run by sex workers where prospective or current clients could learn how to be respectful and mindful. I thought they sounded

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
6 min read
Experience

Branded: The Fight for Employment After Sex Work

It's been ten years that sex work and I have been bedfellows, and I'm looking at formally hanging up my uncomfortable heels to put it behind me. Turns out, though, it's easier said

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
10 min read
Guides

How to Date a Sex Worker (Successfully!): Tips for Coming Home

There are whole books dedicated on how to be in a relationship with someone who has a demanding job; while some are based around specific careers, others focus on workaholism, or the "

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
7 min read
Experience

Forbidden Flesh: Fatness and Fetishism Within Adult Entertainment

I often identify myself, with some pleasure, as fat. Just as often, there's a flurry of anxiety around my use of the word, as if I am judging myself harshly in some fashion.

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
8 min read
Opinion

(Porn)Stars and the Real Girl

The title of the article was the first indication of something awful. Ok, the fact it was Cosmo was the first indication, but the title, "11 Differences Between Porn Actresses and Real Women,

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
5 min read
Experience

Girlfriend Experience: When the Professional Turns Personal

I fell in love at work once.I wasn't emotionally prepared for my feelings. I didn't know how to categorize them, or how to take care of myself. I figured I was good

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
11 min read
Experience

Investment: The Care and Maintenance of a Sugar Daddy vs a Regular

I've had a lot of different experiences with relationships where one person makes more money than the other; sometimes I was the flush one, sometimes I was the dependent. There's a lot of

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
6 min read
Experience

Mindfield: The (Potentially) Therapeutic Nature of Sex

One of the questions I hear regularly is a sneering one asking why someone would book an escort rather than casually date. While we know that people have multiple reasons why they seek

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
3 min read

BDSM 101: Negotiating Kinky Play with a Provider

Going to a provider can be quite the scary experience when you have particular fetishes or kinks you want to explore, but you’re not entirely sure how to discuss it. As a

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
3 min read
Advice

Faster Pussycat, Blog! Blog! Sex, Censorship And Social Media

I jokingly say that everything I learned about social media marketing I learned from being a sex worker, but it’s not altogether untrue.I’m going to start out here with a

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
7 min read
Experience

Kitty Stryker: Plus Size Porn Starlet, Lecturer, Sex Critical Feminist

So, you want to know a little bit more about me, and how I got into the adult industry?I was living on my own at 18. I couldn’t go to high

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
6 min read
Kink

Safe/Ward: I never called it rape.

(Note: while I’m speaking here about M/f situations, as that’s where I was at the time, that’s not at all to say that men or Dominant women don’t

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
10 min read
Sex

Fuck Me, I’m Fat: A Hot Guide to Fat Sex

Article Originally Published 2011, Freshened Up With New Products and New Tips!Ever read the sex tips in Cosmo and thought “seriously, I am not a yoga master, how the hell am I

  • Kitty Stryker
    Kitty Stryker
9 min read
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