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The Best Bang for Your Buck Sex Toys for 2020

This time of year is rife with year (and decade) wrapups and best-of lists. But so many of them are the same basic rehashes of terrible overplayed radio hits, movies you haven’t seen yet, or deliberately controversial-seeming clickbait about who-did-what-better-than-whomever-else. Yawn.

Kink

Book Review and Giveaway of Bondassage: Kinky Erotic Massage Tips For Lovers

Those who aren’t drawn to kinky play often cannot get past its extremes, and often operate on the assumption that since they personally cannot understand what there is to enjoy about BDSM,

Interviews

An Interview with NaughtyReviews

There are plenty of sites that host reviews, but few of them put the time and energy into really creating a full-blown community comprised of escorts and hobbyists alike. NaughtyReviews has spent the

Reviews

Rental Review: Dungeon West

When I started working in this industry, I worked out of a house that had a beautiful space, with multiple semi-themed rooms and, outside of the play spaces, an unassuming, cozy atmosphere. I

Interviews

An Interview with Mistress Justine Cross

No matter which way you google "Los Angeles Dominatrix," there is one result that you'll continue to see over and over again: the presence of the gorgeous Mistress Justine Cross. She

Reviews

Book Review: Paying for It: A Guide by Sex Workers for Their Clients

Time-wasters, wankers, and flakes are just a few of the non-violent, but nevertheless infuriating clientele that entertainers encounter on a regular basis. While some of these people are intentionally disrespectful of an escort's

News

Eyeball Lickin' Good

Recently, an extraordinary number of Japanese children as young as eleven years old have been getting styes, and cases of conjunctivitis, better known as pinkeye, have been on the rise. According to JapanCrush,

Kink

Dating Deviants: Where and How to Find Your Perverted Partner

Finding someone who: you have chemistry with, both sexually and socially lives close enough to be accessible is in the right place with themselves and wants the same things that you want and

Guides

You Are Sexy...But Do You Know It?/Part 2

Welcome back! This is the second half of this series on exploring how entertainers possess such aplomb, even while existing as wonderfully flawed human beings. Continue reading for two more tips on how

Experience

Why Private Entertainers Screen Their Clients

Boys, we need to have a serious chat. Let us take a moment from the usual Slixa LateNight sexiness to talk about something that cannot be ignored any longer. Recently, a Texas jury

Kink

Study Finds Kinksters Mentally Healthier than Vanilla Folk

Good news, fellow perverts!æ Despite the popular opinion that those who revel in the dark side of sexuality are incurably damaged, a recent article æpublished in the Journal of Sexual Medicine is

Guides

The 5 Worst Ways to Approach a Provider

Entertainers are accustomed to being bombarded with silly, nonsensical, and sometimes downright offensive emails on the daily. Some potential clientsî even get off on this sort of thing (I suppose that falls under

Guides

You Are Sexy...But Do You Know It? (Part 1)

Providers often work with people who struggle with their feelings about their bodies. Although women are undeniably affected by the conventional beauty standard, I know that many of my male clients (and men

Advice

Finding the Perfect Fetish Provider

Many people find that their sexuality continues to be fluid long after puberty, and as they age, their vanilla interests may become sullied with good ol' fashioned kink. What fun! If you find

Experience

Roleplaying Games

What is it about kink that seems to attract dorks? What is it that ties geeks and kink together? Whether it is cosplay, furries, or your run-of-the-mill fetishist, it seems that nerdery and

Law

Exposing Mountains and Molehills...of Truth

The law may be a blunt instrument, but when wielded by a witty hand, it can put you in stitches. U.S. District Judge Fred Biery recently ruled on a case curiously dubbed

Kink

INTERVIEW: Multi-talented Kinkster Moira Leyland

While many of us in the world of professional BDSM (and sex work overall) tend to take on lots of different kinds of odd jobs beyond our primary description, Moira has actually created

Opinion

Fap On, Fap Off

A quick search for information on the No Fappers leads to No Fap September, an annual challenge to abstain from masturbation (but not sex) that is rumored to have started on 4chan in

Experience

Tiny cocks, how do I love thee? Let me count the ways...

There seems to be a common misconception that sexual humiliation, at its core, is intended to be completely disparaging and soul-crushing.æ While, of course, that kind of humiliation has its merits (I

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