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Andre Shakti

Andre Shakti

Andre Shakti is a queer journalist, educator, performer, activist, and professional slut living in the DMV.

Baltimore, MD •
22 posts •
Opinion

Who Gets to Identify as a Sex Worker? How Social Hierarchies Permeate the Sex Industry

The drive to create social hierarchies in order to improve how individuals are perceived by others is intoxicatingly pervasive. It’s even permeated the sex industry, presenting as a class system colloquially referred to as “the whorearchy.”

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
3 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: I'll Never Make Her Cum

I’m a twenty eight year old heterosexual guy and have never managed to make a girl cum. I’ve had several different girlfriends and they all say they like what we do, but most often I cum and then they give up and we go to sleep or do something else. What am I doing wrong?

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
3 min read
Experience

Pegged (or "The Myth of Giving, Taking, & Losing One's Virginity")

Ben and I had been working together for just over 6 months. When we started, he'd never approached, flirted with, or kissed a girl. He became one of my favorite clients, later asking to see me in another context. See, I’m also a dominatrix, and while I'd never disclosed that, the Internet provides.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
7 min read
Advice

When The Money’s Green but the Breath is Rank: Gently Encouraging Good Hygiene in Clients

Statistically speaking, the greater number of clients you see regularly, the more often you'll have to intercept clients who clash with your own hygienic expectations. Here are my best client hygiene tips to set you – and your future clients – up for maximum success.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
4 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: I Want It Rough, But He's Too Big

Recently we've begun to explore rougher sex with my husband in a more dominant role. I really enjoy getting aggressively penetrated from behind, but my husband has an exceptionally long dick and every time I have the desire to get pounded it feels like...

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
3 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: She won't marry me, and there's no sex. What now?

I've been dating the same woman since college. Our relationship is great and we live together full time, but we are not married. She still says "dating," or "my girlfriend," when talking about us. We also don’t have sex. Ever. Not even a little bit sometimes because it’s a holiday.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
3 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: Do Sex Workers Really Like What They Do?

Is it possible to tell which sex workers like what they do for a living? I imagine that lots of them hate it and I wouldn't want to hire somebody who hated being with me. What are the signs that somebody enjoys their work and will like to be with me?

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
3 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: Oral Sex Isn't Really Sex, Right?

Am I still a virgin if it's just oral sex? I know all sex is sex, but if I've never had vaginal sex, aren't I still technically a virgin?

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
2 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: Is My Relationship Facing Death by Sext?

I'm in the middle of a fight with a sex regular via text message and everything each of us is saying seems to make it worse. I'm tempted to just block him and never answer any of his calls again, but I'm worried I might be misinterpreting his words.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
3 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: I Don't Want An Open Relationship With My Husband

I have been married to my partner for 9 years and he has begun to express an interest in opening our relationship. This really scares me because I don’t want to get any diseases or risk losing him to someone more exciting or adventurous than I have been. What can I do?

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
3 min read
Experience

For Mother's Day: 5 Stories of Sex Workers and Their Super Supportive Moms

This Mother’s Day, I wanted to carve out some time to commend all the supportive moms of sex workers out there. The moms who cheerlead their child’s accomplishments and speak out supportively. I profiled five such mother-daughter pairs.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
8 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: How Can I Slow Down In Bed?

My first suggestion would be to schedule your sex date in advance. That way you can block off a lengthier period of time and ensure you and your partner won't feel rushed. This is especially important for women, as it typically takes us much longer to achieve orgasm than men.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
3 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: I'm Not As Sexual As I'm Supposed to Be

Low libido isn't always a problem, although the pharmaceutical industry does its damndest to convince us otherwise. The fact is, sexual libido is on a spectrum that can fluctuate and evolve over time due to a number of both predictable and unforeseeable factors.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
3 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: I'm Barely Legal – Am I Ready For Porn?

While it sounds like this is something you've thought long and hard about, many young women make an impulsive decision to jump headfirst into the sex industry and later regret it. Make sure you're interrogating your motivations. At the risk of sounding like everyone's mother, porn is indeed forever.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
4 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: My 'Sex Number' Isn't Normal.

The thing about "normal" when it comes to sex, dear reader, is that it's an arbitrary concept. Research statistics on sexual partner numbers typically define sex narrowly – e.g. as penetration with a penis present – and therefore inauthentically.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
3 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: Should I Tell My Boyfriend To Just BUZZ Off?

You deserve all the sex toys and vibrators you want, dear reader. Your partner (hopefully!) brings more to the relationship table than sexual prowess. He's not responsible for your orgasm; only YOU are responsible for your orgasm.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
4 min read
Sex

Why Do People Pay For Sex

Narratives of sex work as despicable, sex workers as disposable, and those who consume sex work as degenerates are heavily steeped in our cultural imagination. Without question, stigma isolates those it seeks to illuminate.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
9 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: Screening Makes Me Squeamish

Andre Says: I can in no way make predictions about the quality of another provider's services. What I CAN promise you, is that when it comes to booking a sex worker, there is typically a correlation between increased security protocol and the provider's legitimacy, experience and professionalism.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
4 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: Am I PrEPared enough?

Andre Says: Unprotected anal sex is the riskiest kind of sex when it comes to STDs, because of how delicate the lining inside the anal cavity is. Should a disease or infection come in contact with even the most microscopic of tears, there’s a significant chance of it moving into the bloodstream.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
3 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: My Boyfriend Hates Dogs

Andre Says: If I were you, I would sit down with my partner and apologize. Apologize for making him feel pressured or invalidated by your skepticism around their allergies, and explain why you reacted that way.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
4 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: Gay Slut Shaming

Andre Says: You define the sex you are having with your boyfriend as "fine," which isn't exactly convincing me that you are getting your cakes satisfyingly smashed on the regular.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
3 min read
Advice

Ask Andre: STD School

Andre Says: Here in the United States we’re still doing a shit job of preventing the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases and infections, a failure which can largely be chalked up to our obsession with shame.

  • Andre Shakti
    Andre Shakti
4 min read
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