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Rum Dolor

+And now for something completely different:
cerebral domination, naturally

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Joy by woe, as woe by joy -Goethe

This is all a little overwhelming, I know. & maybe the pagentry isn’t for you - me either. Let me show you what a natural power imbalance feels like. Maternal sadism is not an oxymoron. No hammy acting, no generic persona, no quarter. I love guiding explorers & first timers.

I am a real live natural-born sadist; an explorer of power dynamics in every facet of my life & art. I savor every whimper I can extract for it’s own sake. Tangible pain piques my interest, of course, but my purest interest is psychological. My fetish is getting inside your head & taking up space rent-free, knowing you like no one else has known you & with that knowledge molding you to fit. Handmaids to husbands, I’ve trained them all.

Addiction is a bad word but what else do you call the obsession that follows the break? This is not an ordinary dungeon encounter, I do not consider myself a service, I am an experience & really, could you ever go back to playing pretend after me?

The Look

Rum Dolor is a 5'7", curvy, all natural, 27 year old caucasian woman with long red hair and hazel eyes.

She is available for Men, Women, Couples, and TV/TS.


Read my FAQs, blog & twitter to better get a sense of what i’ll be like to talk with over champagne & oysters but I’ve reserved this space to outline my more devious interests:

Femdom Indoctrination

Slave Training

Total Power Exchange & Contracts

Thought Re-Programming
Motivational Training

Lite to Extreme Humiliation & Degradation

CFNM Body & Object Fetishism [stockings, feet, armpits, etc]

Goddess Cult & Religious Deprogramming [conversion, ritual, confession, prayer, excommunication etc]

Interrogation [ police, confession etc]
Behavior Monitoring & Modification – including corporal punishment
Domestic Servant Training
Total Feminization/ Sissification & Femininity Lessons
Sensory & Sensation
Predicaments & Challenges
Chastity Training / Keyholding
Nurture & Encouragement
Objectification [human furniture, ashtray, rugs, etc]
Pheromone & Scent Indoctrination – My underarms are kept natural.
Ego Assessment & Adjustment
& etcetera, according to my whim

I exploring my kinks & our connection in creative scenarios including medical drama, sci-fi predicaments, abduction/hostage & nurturing dynamics- I’m never opposed to hearing a new idea.


Visit my website. If you’d like to see me in person the page “In the Flesh” will have a form for you to fill out. This is the only way I take bookings as I like to be organized.

Due to the screening process, those using references must request an appointment no less than 24 hours in advance. If I can verify your identity alternatively, more impulsive appointments are possible.

I prefer submissives & slaves but polite fetishists are always welcome.

I do NOT engage in any unauthorized activity; I am a dominatrix, not an escort. Requesting explicit acts in your appointment inquiry will get you blocked.

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