Unfortunately, our society doesn’t always paint the prettiest picture when it comes to the world of escorting. It often inaccurately portrays the hobby as a seedy one that is occupied by women who are coerced into their work and do not enjoy what they do.
It doesn’t take long to figure out that this is far from the truth. However, many gentlemen are worried about how it would reflect on them should someone they know find out about their encounters with escorts. Worse than that, if their families were to discover their involvement in the hobby.
There is nothing wrong with needing to be discreet about your encounters, that’s perfectly normal. It’s important to realize that keeping this area of your life private is necessary and doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong.
Married men sometimes also struggle with feelings of guilt about seeing escorts. Everyone has their own personal reasons why they seek out the company of an escort, and in my own experience, that reason often boils down to a lack of sexual affection from one’s spouse in the case of those men who are married.
Since we all have our own sexual and emotional needs, finding someone to help us fulfill them is in no way unreasonable. Just because your wife has no interest in sex anymore doesn’t mean you cease to care about her and the life you’ve built together over the years. The fact that you are keeping her separate from what you do with escorts actually shows a deep kind of respect that you may only have for her, which hardly makes you a bad guy or a creep.
Don’t forget the role that biology plays in things either. As women age and enter menopause, it’s not uncommon for them to have less interest in sex than they once did. While women are only biologically designed to bear children for a certain window of time, men are compelled to continue having sex throughout their lives and into older age, to carry on the species.
Another important factor is that women of childbearing age are naturally attractive to men on a subconscious level, since they appear to be healthy and able to reproduce.
Here’s another way to look at things. If you hire a housekeeper to clean your home, should that make you feel lazy? Or if you hire someone to care for your kids during the day, does that make you a bad parent?
Of course it doesn’t. It means you’re a busy person with a life, like everyone else. We enter into business relationships with people all the time, and escorting is no different.
Besides, believe it or not, you probably know someone else who has seen an escort at some point in their life. They may even be someone close to you and who you would never have guessed would partake in the hobby. Your co-workers, your bar buddies, your family members.
Bottom line is that sex is normal and men have been paying for companionship for as long as humans have been around.