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Mistress Esme

+Geeky Voluptuous Ebony Dominatrix in London.

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I am not like the stereotypical Professional Dominant. First and foremost being Dominant is not just a job to me, its a way of life. A passion and something I fundamentally enjoy and believe in. Time spent with me is not about a shopping list of ideas, it’s about an ethos, a time when you can come and be under my control, and allow me to be the creative Dominant that you will soon realise I am. Using the knowledge I’ve built over 10 years to ensure that we both find joy and passion in a truly Dominant and submissive exchange.

I’m bubbly and outgoing and like nothing more than to laugh and have fun as we spend time together. Time spent in my presence will give me the chance to take your submission and use it in my own inimitable style, for a real and true D/s encounter. You will be safe in the knowledge that whilst all limits and values will be respected, equally, I will use all my skills to bring out the submissive you know you can be and help us both enjoy fun and Dominance in my domestic playspace.

I’m not a clock watcher, I don’t run by the hour, if you do your job well you’ll find me enjoying the time and the hours will just fly by. However, if you come with a shopping list of things you want, you won’t get the best from our time and ultimately, we will both probably be waiting for the session to end. I do what I do because I’m genuinely Dominant, and I not only seek but crave genuine submissives at my feet, to allow me to get inside their head and create my magic on their willing body and soul.

Are you the submissive I require? Would you relish being engaged in a genuine Dominant/submissive experience rather than a manufactured set of activities? If so, start to show that to me by making contact respectfully. Our Dominant and submissive exchange starts the moment we first make contact. Good subs know how to make a good impression.

*If this is your first time and you like the sound of what you read, firstly well done, you’ve seen immediately that Domination is not about a list of activities but about a mental and psychological exchange. Don’t be afraid, tell me you are new, and let me show you and help you discover your true submissive potential.

The Look

Mistress Esme is a bbw 32 year old ebony woman with medium length black hair and brown eyes.

She is available for Male, Female, and Couples.


Away from kink, I like to travel. I love the Caribbean. I am a sucker for the warm weather however I also like cultural holidays. South America and Japan are places I have yet to visit but are high on my bucket list.

Gaming is something I enjoy as part of chill out time. Solo or Co-op it relaxes me. Obviously, co-op is more fun because I have someone to play with. Wink! Wink!

Who doesn’t like to dine out? I love home cooked meals but it’s nice to go out and not have to worry. I like fine dining but I am equally happy grabbing a burger as long as the company is good.

The theatre isn’t for everyone. I love the Ballet, Opera, Musicals (guilty pleasure) and just a good old fashion play. Kudos points if it’s something weird and wonderful in a small back street theatre.

Museums are a great talking point. I love a good historical debate. Plus you’re never too old to learn.

I am also an avid afternoon tea connoisseur. Earl Grey and cucumber sandwiches are the way to my heart. Along with good quality leather goods. Mulberry has become a stable for me of late. Some might call it a leather fetish.

Like kink my interest are vast. On a whole, I am a bit of a geek and old worldly. Most people say I am very easy to get on with. I am not the drama-filled type nor do I care for it. I am however caring and responsible. While I might play hard, I am very much a tactile person.

Hopefully, I haven’t bored you too much by this stage.


DUNGEON HOURS: Sessions are from 10:00 till 20:00 (unless it’s an overnight or alternative arrangements have been made).

Sessions must be booked at least 48 hours in advance with deposit paid.


For outcalls, there is a £100 surcharge on top of normal tribute. Travel is within Zone 1 and Hotels Only! 50% non-refundable deposit.


If you would like to invite me to your city, the cost of my preferred travel and accommodation will be required. Tribute cost to be discussed upon enquiry.


  • Be on time!
  • Have your tribute prepared in advance in order to present it upon arrival in an envelope.
  • Personal hygiene is paramount so don’t turn up unwashed.
  • I will not tolerate anyone under the influence of alcohol or drugs. You will be removed and will not get a refund.
  • Privacy is important to me, therefore, be quiet when entering and exiting my premises.
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