Mistress J

+Surrender, Bliss and BDSM await you in San Jose.

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Submission never felt better…

You know you crave surrender…

Give up control to a sensual, caring and dominant woman.

Become my plaything and turn your body over to me! I will tease and torment you, and glide over you with oil & make you submit with pleasure to the pressure of my curvy body!

Craving something darker?

Bondassage® takes you on a journey of sensation surprises. A deliberate sequence of motions and implements allows you to give up complete control and go toward your deeply hidden desires. Through discipline, surrender to Me, and I will take you on an exploration of the senses…

Elysium® is also a journey of sensation, but based on relaxation. It’s a bound massage without the D/s. A gentle, slow passage to the edge and back ~ over and over, until I say when. It is more gentle, softer and sensual. And always, always sensational! Let me use our time together to guide your body & mind to sensual bliss.

Visit me in San Jose for an unforgettable experience!

Rates: 60 Mins:220 90 Mins:300 120 Mins:400
Bondassage & Elysium: 90 Mins: 400 120 Mins:500


I am interested in my fellow humans. I have a BA in journalism and worked as a reporter and photographer for a Bay Area newspaper. I have an inquisitive nature and love finding out about my clients.

My passions include the great outdoors, the great indoors, live theater, fine food and wine, my cats and my clients.


I am in San Jose, California and do in-call only.

Typical hours are 12-8, but I can accomodate your schedule with notice. I also work weekends by appointment.

I remain in charge of the session. Mistress J is not a switch and does not submit. Please don’t ask. Safe words and safe calls are also implemented. This is non-negotiable!

Please be on time. If you arrive early, you may let me know you have arrived, but you might need to wait until our appointed time.

I am drug and drama free. If you show up inebriated you will be asked to leave. Please keep cigarette smells to a minimum.

Showers are available before and after the session.

I have cats, so if you are allergic, take an allergy pill.