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+Shelter with the Guru of Nuru in Coastal Ventura County

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Whether a moment or long term friendship, it is my highest joy to offer you a warm and welcoming heart.

As a former nurse and active holistic health practioner, I am always hyper-vigilant about minimizing risk factors in my space. Cleanliness and safety on all levels has always been a top priority. I love working out of my home in my secluded little beach town and I will continue to do so as I currently remain feeling safe.

It’s up to each of us to take care of ourselves and one another so that we may move past a life of conditioned beliefs and cultural stigmas surrounding our connections.

After a hiatus from the industry I am now back and enjoy offering a getaway in my lovely beach house nestled by the sea in Ventura County just 20 minutes south of Santa Barbara, CA and 45 minutes North of Malibu, CA.

My space is beautifully decorated in a yogic/coastal style that makes one feel right at home, with a beautifully crafted and inviting ambiance that allows complete relaxation. An oasis for mind, body, soul.

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BendyGirl is a 5'2", athletic caucasian woman in her late 40's with shoulder length brunette hair and brown eyes.

She is available for Male, Female, and Couples.




Certified Massage Therapist specializing in Nuru, and Thai Medicinal Massage, Tantra, and reversal of dysfunctions.

I am a fit, small/petite, healthy, educated, relaxed, and experienced woman. I am a yogi with immaculate self care. A background in health and education and a certified Loveologist. I have a book on Nuru for couples (and individuals) on Amazon under the pen name Loveologist. My site also offers a blog where I discuss much of the same subject matter.

I am well studied, and well organized. I love the quiet brief moments as well as the longer conversations. A healer at heart, for all that ails.


I run two other unrelated businesses that keep me busy so please give me a day or two notice to best prepare if we have not met previously.

To get started, please fill out of the form found on my website here:

Please note I prefer only to correspond with those that are age 35+

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