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“You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.” -Mary Oliver

In 20+ years of experience as a Tantric healer and teacher, I’ve learned how to create a safe, sensuous, deeply relaxing environment for us both.

It’s hard to prioritze yourself. But you know that loving touch is “just what the doctor ordered.” When you are with the right woman your guard comes down, and you let yourself be pampered.

Like me, you are over 40. (or very mature and respectful for your age)

I look forward to learning more about you… here are some things to know about me

  • I’m a highly trained sensualist with a knack for putting nervous people at ease.
  • In my case, mature is not just a code word for “older”, but describes my naturally patient and emotionally grounded way of being.
  • Its all about being authentic! I love getting to know the people I touch and creating ongoing connection!

I have made a life’s study of the body, and its pleasure circuitry, and I’m still learning every day. Touch is my spiritual practice. But you do not need to believe in anything to benefit from the fact that I do.

Please take the time to check out my website at particularly the section on my training, and my work with couples and women. The Contact page will tell you how to reach out, and what kind of first contact gets an IMMEDIATE response.

My East Bay office is on Lake Merrit and I’m there Wed-Fri

My South Bay office is in Menlo Park and I’m there Saturdays

I book up very quickly and almost always need advance notice.

The Look

Sophie Sophisticated Sensualist is a 5'9", curvy caucasian woman in her late 40's with medium length auburn hair and brown eyes.

She is available for Male, Female, Couples, and Trans.


I have found there is nothing more healing, or FUN than exploring the universe of connection. Don’t you love feeling wildly alive? Me too! See how much we have in common already? ;)


Please introduce yourself when you contact me, and let me know what about this profile inspired you to reach out. Please tell me a bit about yourself too!

+1-510-255-1956 leave a voicemail or text.

TANTRA 280/hr … 90 minute minimum for new friends, 2 hours STRONGLY preferred

If we haven’t met yet, please provide all the information requested in you initial contact. When you reach out that way, connecting with you will be my highest priority! You can expect contact within a few hours Wed-Sat, and within the day Sun-Tues.

1. A positive reference from someone who is presently advertising or has a website


2. A driver’s license and a selfie

3. A professional website with your picture and name, or a LinkedIn account.

I commit to treating your personal information with the greatest respect. If you are attempting to book a “same day” appt, please include your verification information with your intital contact.

You are welcome to email me at Please introduce yourself fully in as much detail as you like, along with your reference information. I love to read about you before we meet.

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