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Mistress J

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+Fabulous Sensational Massage & Bondassage with me in San Jose.

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San Francisco


BDSM, Body Rub, Fetish / Kinky

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Submission never felt better…

The Look

Mistress J is a 5'6", curvy, all natural caucasian woman in her early 40's with short auburn hair and green eyes.

She is available for Men, Women, and Couples.

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I am a woman who loves being in control, but who also enjoys giving, that’s why I love what I do.

My clients thirst for a way to give up the control and decision making they have in everyday life and surrender to a woman who can guide them to submission. Most of my clients crave a conversance missing from their everyday lives. Some want to experience surrender in a gentle way, others crave sensuality. I offer it all here.

I pride myself on forming a connection with my guests. My plays pace is warm and welcoming. I offer luxurious sheets and towels, and all the amenities for your use.

Whether your interests are a nice massage, Klixen, tie & taunt or my personal favorite, Bondassage ®, you are in for a treat!

I invite you to look at my website for more information about my offerings.


Visit me in San Jose for an unforgettable experience!


I have an inquisitive nature and love finding out about my clients.

My passions include the great outdoors, the great indoors, live theater, fine food and wine, my cats and my guests.


I am in San Jose, California and do in-call only.

Typical hours are 12-8, but I can accomodate your schedule with notice. I also work weekends by appointment.

I remain in charge of the session. Mistress J is not a switch and does not submit. Please don’t ask. Safe words and safe calls are also implemented. This is non-negotiable!

Please be on time. If you arrive early, you may let me know you have arrived, but you might need to wait until our appointed time.

I am drug and drama free. If you show up inebriated you will be asked to leave. Please keep cigarette smells to a minimum.

Showers are available before and after the session.

I have cats, so if you are allergic, take an allergy pill.

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